Niv

Welcome to the wonderful world of my touch. I have been a bodyworker for nearly 30 years and in movement and education for the last 19. I have spent more recent years focusing on the pleasures and delights of erotic touch and sex education. Both tantric touch and somatic sex coaching have amazing healing benefits beyond the scope of pleasure. If you are looking to explore your erotic nature in new and playful ways, or if you have something you are working with and would like a space to explore then I would love to support you on that journey.

 

 

Both of these services are designed to empower you to explore your erotic horizons.  

 

Tantra Touch

While a massage bodywork session can be truly magical, one that includes our erogenous zones invites the body to experience true delight. I have spent years working with bodies via touching and teaching movement and pleasure to notice my clients and their needs providing a quality of touch that is personalised and unique. I initially spend time getting to know about your body and the touch it likes. I listen to your intentions for the session so there is no room for disappointment. I also have firm but loving boundaries around what a session entails and also respect and welcome boundaries of clients.

 

 

Some BENEFITS you may experience are:

 

• Sampling new ways to experience pleasure through your whole body
• Exploration of ejaculation choice (retaining life force energy)
• Deep states of relaxation in your body
• Learning the art of receiving
• Explore the use of tools like breath to enhance your pleasure
• Better understanding of you anatomy 

 

What it CAN include:

 

* Chat and a drink

• An Exquisite front and back body touch experience
• Head and foot caress (pressure to your desires)
• Option to explore a variety of styles of touch, soft, light, nails, tapping, spanking, deeper pressure, long and slow (if you get curious)
• Sensual, playful, teasing and building 
• Breathwork to enhance pleasure or working with ejaculation choice. 
• Education around touch (if requested)
• A deep feeling of relaxation and bliss

 

30mins  Express Erotic Caress $175

45mins  Full Body Tantra Touch $225

1hr        Full Body Tantra Touch $275

1.5hrs    Full Body Tantra Touch $350

2hrs       Full Body Tantra Delight $425

 

Tantric Touch is a full body sensual massage that includes bodyslides, cock massage and anal touch if you desire.  IF YOU are after a TAILORED SESSION that meets desires that go beyond my standard session, some extras are on offer.

 

Some of these might include:

 

·       Pegging

·       Role play

·       Domination/submission (me as dom)

·       Some kinks upon request

·       Couples (either an experience or learning how to erotically massage each other)

·       Ritual – if you would like to connect deeper to your spiritual nature, I can design or guide a process to explore those deeper realms.

 

If you do desire a personalised service, rates are discussed upon request.

Please note:  while some discussion via text or email about what’s on offer is available, most discussion is done in person before the session.

 

 

Somatic Sexology and Erotic Enhancement

 

Somatic sex coaching is a wonderful way to get to know you, your body, sex and sexuality better. For most of us, sex education excluded learning about pleasure. What somatic sex coaching can do is create a space to welcome your curious about sex, what it can look like and how to explore and navigate your own desires as well as how to interact in the dating pool around us.  It’s a supportive, trauma informed, curiosity filled space that is designed to remind the body how to have fun and to welcome all the colours of the spectrum that are you.

 

If you are curious, here are some things we can work together with:

 

• Masturbation Coaching – want to change old patterning or to last longer or feel more pleasure throughout your body.  Here’s where to start.  
• Learn better language and skills to communicate better – we all want that.
• Boundaries and Consent – the better we understand and know our boundaries, the better we can ask for what we want and to respect the boundaries of others. 
• Ejaculation Choice – did you know people retain their semen to improve their health and vitality.  Learn some meditation and breathing techniques to build this capacity in your body..
• Come to quickly – there are practices that can help you.  Come learn with me and you will be able to practice this again and again to control things when it matters.
• Difficulty getting hard or staying hard – we will explore what is happening in your body and look at possibilities available for you.
• Vaginismus
• Core Erotic Theme – attracted to a certain type of person; here’s a way to work out why and how to meet it if you want to do things differently
• Couples – you love each other but have different ways of being warmed up (mismatched libidos) or just looking for fun games to connect or broaden your erotic play together; or sometimes we have different styles of sexual connection.  Once you understand that then you know how to meet each other. 
• Learn about your genital anatomy and that of your partner/s. Try new strokes and ways to pleasure yourself or each other. 
• Learn how to orgasm 
• Sensory play – exploring the variety of ways touch can impact your body and how to play with range.
• Breathing techniques to expand your orgasmicity and make sex even better
• Body Image and how to love your body better
• Mapping touch – do you know where you like to be touched or your pleasure zones are. If not then this is for you.
• Scar tissue remediation – surgery, childbirth, gut issues, endometriosis etc. Sound familiar –  these can produce scar tissue and may limit sensation and arousal. Remediation work can help you.

 

 

AND MORE…. 

 

This session is about supporting your learning and tailoring to your curiosity and needs. 

 

FEES: 

 

Somatic Sexology Session – 1.5 hours $250

This session is for those who want to learn something in a safe, stress free space.  This space is great for people looking more to learn something in a fairly relaxed and no pressure space.  Essentially I will give exercises or make suggestions but you lead the show.  This is about what you want to learn.  It is ONE WAY TOUCH so you can’t touch me but if the learning desires it, touch from me to you is available.  I keep my clothes on, we chat about what is going to and not going to happen and we move slowly.  We keep the communication flowing all the way through.

 

 

NOTE: This is one way touch (practitioner to client). This is NOT FULL SERVICE work or SEX. 

 

 

Erotic Enhancement – $375 per hour

If you like the idea of the session above but have no one to practice with then this session welcomes more mutual touch.  This session is a space where you can practice and learn with me. There is still a learning objective, agreements about what will and won’t happen but clothes can come off and TOUCH IS TWO WAY is welcome. It just opens up the options for those who want a bit more opportunity to explore more intimate learnings.

 

 

 

A BIT ABOUT ME… 

 

I have a genuine interest in people. I love to understand why we operate the way we do and I have enjoyed movement in my own body and understand that of others. Touch has been a strong style of communication in my life. From educating school students of all ages to teaching about yoga, acroyoga, circus and erotic embodiment, I have a skill in creating a safe, playful and open container to co-create experiences of learning, empowerment and healing. I’m queer, non-binary and love the diversity of how we express ourselves and who we are as humans. I work with all genders, gender non-binary, queer and trans folk. All expressions are welcome.

 

Location: Fairfield, QLD (NOT VICTORIA OR NSW)

 

Availability: I am available several weekdays, one or two evenings a week and the occasional weekend. When making appointments please forward the following information:

 

Name:

Number:

What service you would like and if relevant how long:

Day and time you would like an appointment:

What you are curious about:

 

Please read all of the above as many questions may already be answered there.

 

I really look forward to working with you. Whether you know what you want or are just a bit curious about what else is possible, send me an email to the above address.

 

Niv xx

 

PS Some courses and professionals I have learnt from

 

Certificate in Sexological Bodywork (Institute of Somatic Sexology)

Certificate in Somatic Sex Coaching (Institute of Somatic Sexology)

Foundations of Somatic Sexology (Institute of Somatic Sexology)

Completed 3rd Year Research Project (focus on desire) in Sexological Bodywork (Institute of Somatic Sexology)

Introduction to Embodied Counselling (Institute of Somatic Sexology)

Urban Tantra (Barbara Carrellas)

ISTA

Mantak Chia

Like a Pro – Wheel of Consent (Betty Martin)

Wheel of Consent Facilitator

Rainbow Body with Kenneth Ray Stubbs

Training with Reverend Goddess Charmaine

 

 

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